I can't get over a woman who has a boyfriend because she treats me like she's into me...what do I do? Wait?

I would suggest that you learn this one tool that has helped me tremendously over the past few years. When I meet someone and it feels like there is a connection but at the same time it feels like it is not making sense, it is time for a reality check. Anyone can say and act in ways that are confusing to us. This gal seems to be one of them. When I first meet someone I do not believe whay they say and I only watch their behavior because behavior always reveal the TRUTH about a person. It is obvious that she is giving you mixed signals. This is not helpful to you because her signals are hot and then cold. Why would you want someone that treats you this way? Is it just lust or infatuation? Because it is not love. Definitely not love. Here I go again, but my daughter asked an elderly gentleman that we have known for years and she asked him how he had managed to stay married for 60 years. His answer was perfect. He said, "'well I only want the best for her and she only wants the best for me. That is how we show our love for one another." Great description of love. And I am sorry but this gal-pal is leading you one and obviously is not wanting what is best for you. I believe she knows that you are attracted to her and she enjoys the attenion. But when it comes to actually pursuring you, she is pretty darn lame. From this moment forward, everytime you begin to get all emotional and are lusting over her or feeling a strong infatuation with her, stop the obsessing and enter the real world. People that are in love with another do not treat them in the manner in which she has been treating you. Does she want the best for you? I do not believe so. Do you wish the best for her? Probably so. Understand that love is a two-way street and one person cannot keep a relationship going. It takes two. She is not serious, at least not as serious as you wish that she would be. She is playing games with your heart and your heart deserves better. Cool this relationship. It is good that you aren't hanging with her much now. She was using you to make herself feel better about her ability to attract others, She is a player. Forget her. Do not spend one more second dwelling on the past. I think that you have a huge case of infatuation. There will be plenty more loves heading your way. Don't waste your time on one that definitely does not want the best for you. She is totally into herself and there isn't any room for anyone else when one is totally focused on herself. Good luck to you and Bless you. When one door closes another one always opens. Bless you again.